Pros and Cons of Summer Roommates

Spring is coming to a close and summer is quickly approaching ~ although the snowstorm that hit this weekend makes me think otherwise! Second year in a row that we have had a Mother’s Day snowstorm.  What is up with this weather?!

Mother's Day Snowstorm

A Trip Down Roommate Memory Lane

It’s time for Mr. Debt Albatross and I to determine if we want summer roommates. We have hosted two roommates prior and had two completely different experiences.  Our first roommate experience was great.  Roommate 1 was all of the things you look for in a roommate. He was clean, respectful, pleasant to interact with, timely with payments plus much, much more.  He was well-traveled, a great cook, down-to-earth, helped out, and the type of guy who you would want to have a beer with and would leave the conversation knowing more than you had before. He was a bonus to our bank account and to our lives. The second roommate, while also a nice guy, did not connect with us the same way as the first roommate and he also struggled a bit on the tidiness front. (In short, Mr. Debt Albatross was not pleased with the way he left the kitchen almost every single night. It created an awkward, tense environment that was not worth the rental income). We were a bit spoiled with our first experience and now a bit jaded after our second.

We took the Spring off from roommates and now have an opportunity to host roommates again for the summer.  The expected rental income would be around $1875 total.  Not a fortune but certainly helpful to our debt payoff goals.

I’m painting a rosy picture of the first roommate situation and it wasn’t all rosy. Roommates are roommates.  You can’t eliminate the inconveniences of having a stranger in your house, the lack of privacy, the hopefully occasional times where they don’t treat your stuff exactly as you treat your stuff because you own it, the fact that they never seem to buy shared goods such as toilet paper, dryer sheets, or paper towels, or the house guests they invite over – hopefully planned guests but the chance of unplanned overnight guests as well.

Remembering It’s Paid Work

Hosting roommates (and I’m using the word hosting instead of having on purpose) takes work.  Home owners need to provide them with a nice place to live in exchange for a check each month. It’s a two way street. Some of the up-front work includes setting up the room and bathroom with furniture, bedding, sheets, towels, soap, shower curtain, a hamper, etc.  The long-term maintenance includes some basic cleaning, provision of the shared goods as mentioned above, addressing any issues that come up, and the continuous work to make living in the home a good place for them. That last item includes pleasant conversation in shared spaces, respect of their space and belongings, and the creation of a neutral or at best pleasant living environment.

Anytime we got frustrated with Roommate 2, I had to remind myself that he is paying us. We’ve all experienced landlords that think it’s a privilege to live in their home and seem to forget the fact that the renters are paying their mortgage. You’ll hear statements like “we just redid the floors, aren’t you lucky?” or the landlord will deduct money from the security deposit because they have different definitions of normal wear and tear than the law. (I had a landlord in college take hundreds of dollars from our security deposit for couch cleaning even though we kept the couches spotless and barely sat on them in the two and a half months we were there.  I had another landlord send us an angry letter that included a rant about not vacuuming the curtains before we left. Dusty curtains are careless but not unforgivable).

In my opinion, Renters aren’t going to treat a home the same way that an owner would – and that’s just the way it is.  Renters don’t have any long term skin in the game. It’s something that landlords needs to accept and consider in their pricing.

Now there is a certain level of acceptableness that is expected from renters. Roommate 2 who would explode food in our oven and microwave without cleaning it up, left the gas burner in the grill on all night then told us the next day we needed to buy a new one, spilled and left trail mix in the couch cushions of our new couch, left food in the sink instead of rinsing it down the garbage disposal every night, among other transgressions – that crossed the line.  The occasional transgression though should be expected and factored into the pricing.

 Figuring Out Pricing and Making It Worth It

We priced on the low side for Roommate 1 for a few reasons. First, we knew what the competition was pricing and we wanted to beat it. Second, we didn’t know any better.  Since then, we upped the rent $15 per month for Roommate 2 and $70 per month more than that for this summer’s roommates. We told ourselves that the reason we were upping the price for Roommate 2 was cable but we’ve realized recently it’s much more than just cable.  We had to pick a price that accounted for the financial and emotional costs of having a roommate (the toilet paper, utilities, the inconvenience, etc).  All in all, we are expecting to make around $20/day on the summer roommate(s) less any expenses.

When I first did the math and saw the extra income came out to around $20/day I was kind of disappointed.  I used to spend that amount each day on coffee and lunch at work. It seems so small! I bring my coffee and lunch to work now but the math is a simple reminder of how important it is to keep doing so. If we’re going to go through the inconvenience of a roommate, we need to make it worth it by spending less.

We ultimately decided to go for it and will be securing the summer roommate(s) later today.  I can only hope we have a situation closer to Roommate 1 but beggars can’t be choosers!

Outdoor Living Promotes Happiness

I came to a realization this past weekend as I was staring out at the beautiful mountain views. I need to get outside more often. I spend Monday through Friday in a cubicle, in a car, or on my couch. I spend weekends lounging around the house, recovering from the week. I’m completely missing out on everything that nature has to offer and I can feel it in my mood. I hiked Friday, Saturday, and Sunday last weekend and came out of that weekend a completely changed woman.  It’s late morning as I write this post and I already feel the clock ticking for the day. I want to be outside – now.

 

I think for many twenty somethings, social life starts after dark.  Friends typically want go to to restaurants, bars, and clubs at night. I luckily swapped out bars for breweries a few years ago, but I still was caught up in that type of schedule.  Lounge during the day, hang out with friends at night.  This weekend made me realize that enjoying a craft beverage with friends from a thermos overlooking a gorgeous mountain view is 100 times better than enjoying that same beverage in a bar or brewery after dark.

 

This whole process of Debt Albatross has changed me. I had a friend in town this past weekend and on Sunday she suggested we spend a few hours shopping.  The old me would have absolutely wanted to do that.  The new me tried to hide my distaste for the activity. I don’t see the point of spending a beautiful sunny afternoon walking in well lit stores thinking about buying things I don’t need. I don’t need more clothes. I don’t need anything. I have more than enough stuff from my years of consumerism to hold me over for awhile.

 

We decided to go hiking instead and we both were grateful for it. We took my pup who was extremely well behaved (thanks to the Gentle Leader Leash – one purchase from this past weekend I will never regret). The pup was happier, I was happier, and I think my friend was inspired to start taking up more outdoor activities as well.

Happy pup hiking

Mr. Debt Albatross and I have talked about putting together an outdoors bucket list – a list of activities that we want to do and scenic places we want to see in the coming months. It’s funny because our lists used to be dominated by things we wanted to buy. It’s a major shift for us and it feels great.